Friday, August 24, 2007

Break...

Finally, I am now on my much NEEDED break to Bandung, Indonesia. It has been just a whirlwind of work everyday. Zingy agreed to me going on a retreat/holiday/buddy time to Bandung with my childhood girlfriend. God Bless Zingy!!!!!! I told him that I would want to do this before I am preggers and before I become an old wart.

I plan to sleep, shop, go for a massage, eat, go for massage, shop, eat, sleep and ponder on life for the next 5 days.

:D

Monday, August 20, 2007

Bleh

I am having backaches, bruises on my legs, a stiff neck, twitching eyes, and eczema on my fingers...... I wanna dig a hole in the ground and crawl in there with a piece of cheesecake and some Earl Grey tea.

On a totally unrelated note, I had a great weekend last week. It was the best Saturday in a long time, with great company, the best cheesecake and the best Cambodian chicken. Yummmmm

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

1st Instinct - Blame the other fella...

K asked me for directions. I told him, he said yes yes yes. Then called me up again to say that he was lost. Then proceeded to tell me that I should not have brought him to an unfamiliar route.

I answered 'then ask me for what'??

WHAT???? WHO?? WHEN???? WHERE??? WHY AM I BLAMED WHEN SOMETHING GOES WRONG? Who called whom? What was that all about???

What I am riled up about is that the blaming was a reflects action...to blame me!

:(

NONSENSE!!

Wednesday, August 8, 2007

#1 Cause of Annoyance

You go to a restaurant. There are 2 of you. The waiter/waitress only gives you ONE bloody menu to look at. The same service if there were 4 persons...

Then if 10 persons are on the table, they give only like 3 menus to look at.

Blind or what? Expect us to crowd round one menu to see issit??

Why do they do this? I don't get it. I really really DON'T BLOODY GET IT!!!!!!!

Wednesday, August 1, 2007

Cheesy Love Stories

I am having trouble sleeping now because :-

1) I drank tea at 6 pm
2) I ate 2 dinners
3) I just watched a really cheesy love story on tv.

Well, this love story was about this orphaned boy who has a heart condition. He then grew up into this really handsome guy who is shy etc. He worked in a cafe and falls in love with this waitress . This waitress never knew of this until one day she was nearly raped by some gangsters and Mr. Angel Hunk came to her rescue. How come he was there to save her? Every night after work, he will follow her home (from a distance) to make sure that she reaches home safely. (so sweet)

So they fall in love. He is the PERFECT boyfriend with a perfect doggie. Then one day, the same gangsters came to beat him up and stabbed him. That triggered off his heart condition. He died on his birthday. Right after a hockey game with girlfriend.

I am stressed.

Why can't the producers just let them get married and live happily ever after?? Why must he die? Isn't there enough suffering and stress in this world? Tsk tsk tsk so suey.

So. This got me thinking about situations like these and meeting true love etc. Eh can't help being mushy la. Oh oh Mr. Angel Hunk also said that he did not want a heart transplant because he was afraid that with a different heart, his love for her will be different... so cheesy larrrrr. Haiya ... Do guys say AND DO things along the lines of "you complete me"..? I am not talking about flowers (from florist), chocolates and fancy dinners. I am talking about things one does from the heart. Like doing the laundry, ironing, cleaning the bathroom to its completion, and doing it because he does not want my hands to be rough. Or that mopping the floor so that I need not hurt my back carrying the pail of water. Or having the initiative to make the house look pretty for me.

I must say though that Zingy does some of these things and I appreciate these actions (as much or) even more than jewelery or money etc (not that I get jewelery or money in lieu of the above services). Heh heh...

It all boils down to the language of love. The problem is guys don't speak the same language. Perhaps God designed it this way so that it'll be a challenge for the guys and so that they will not lose focus and get lazy..... really? hmmm
I know of guys who speak this language fluently and they ain't interested in impressing any girls.

Guys better buck up if not all girls will be swinging to the other side... and vise versa... (added to make this post politically correct).